Professor Dr Singh,
I am in complete agreement with you revered sire.
Never knew buddy is a degratory remark.
Especially My self with a RAMKRISHNA MISSION NARENDRAPUR BACK GROUND.We used to call all the teachers even seretory maharaj as da or dada ....big brother.
I guess traditions have geographical implications as polity.These are but state of perception .As what is good ,bad or self.
Any way thanks for your communicae.
I am really not in much touch with North Indians here in Bengal.
Nor familair with the polity of Bengal or India.
If you mean I should apologise .
which is so very clear.
I have no problem apologising.
If you dwell on my exchange with a little scrutiny you will find i (hope so) that there were no personal flattery that usually comes from fright or personal designs.
I have none .The only debt I have is to science and my subject
which I find sacred as a shrine or a holy book.Not to any institution ,polity,state or religion.Sorry I have none.
Because that what defines me among human.
I dont belive in democracy its but an oxymoron .
As you may realise why.
But if you dont hopefully this communicae is civil enough for a democratic evaluation in your site as i belive are my other comminicae
Its upto you.
If you wish to keep me in or out.
I dont mind.
But you know what
I do feel pain ,anguish,demoralisation people go through when they aren't loved or wanted & hated.I do feel the shame when an individual consciousness is told what to do or what is right or wrong.
I do spend sleepless nights for those reasons from the very first year of my PM&R course and it continues.
If you have for me felt all those things that I know of.
I know why I should be sorry.
But science I gathered is but a tool for acheving the truth
And my only liegeance is to truth
which is
not dreagatory nor congratulatory
neither pleasing nor displeasing.
But simple hard facts
that need to be taken care of
or your existence is just but nullified.
So treat me as per your truth
I have been travelling that way for some time now
I know its okey
I will go on my own way.
My existansial truth that is.
Dont worry some day we may sit down together
and discuss how we defined our universe and what a great experience it is to live a life.
Life cant be sustained in venomous environs ...perceived or real
If you find me venomous plese enquire about me from your colleuges & AIIMSONITES.
if you like to that is .
I only worked with venoms.
I have squirted real venom ??
I have never known.
But certainly have been bitten.
My aspirations are LIFE -SCIENCE-2 LIVE & let others too.
Till that day when we may sit together discuss life over brew(as is our custom).
I leave you to your world.
I feel I have trespassed
Aideau
SIRE.
--- In iapmrgroup@yahoogroups.com, U Singh
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> Writing for the second time in the group on a different note this time. Inspired from the comments by Dr Unnikrishnan and Maj Gen Jain.
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> On the lighter side, I would say that we have made yet another record in having over 100 mails in a month over the group. I am sure that with the rising discussions, Nov 09 would not have this mail as the 115th but more would also come by the end of the day. It is likely to cross 125, my guess, today is the last day of the month. Sorry about deviating from the main subject of this mail. It had a bearing I had been pondering over and wanted to write for a long time, specially when malice towards some and venom towards all starting spurting out from certain mails.
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> About a year and half ago, some heat got generated over the names of the department and it ended in a bad note and I had sent a warning to all that those who go personal and writing in bad taste would be removed from the group. Fortunately, until two months ago, I was more or less satisfied with the tone of the communications over this group but not recently. I have the following humble suggestions/requests or whatever you may call it:
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> 2. We are all well read people (I hope so). We ought to behave like scientists, doctors and speak with dignity, whenever we talk to anyone, specially so in our dealings with other people, after all we are all supposed to be dignified professionals and not psuedos.
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> 3. We should always remember our medical college days. All of us must remember that we used to look at our third button in front of our seniors and used to call even a one year senior as Sir and ranked one year senior as a father and two years senior as a grand-father and so on.
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> 4. Where is our demeanor and where is our dignity. If we regard that well, we would not ridicule our colleagues, throw venom at others, call a very senior member of our association as buddy and what not. I have found that in many mails and feel sorry for those who use these words. I know the times have changed and many claim and would feel that they have grown out of that but a senior always remains a senior, I am saying so since even with a gap of two or three generation respect was not seeming to be delivering from certain letters.
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> 5. This is not a threat but a humble request to all, specially those who know who they are, pleeeeeaaaaase have some dignity in your dealings and deliver only the best what comes out from your thoughts and maintain the deportment to the acceptable level of communication.
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> Please remember, as the group moderator, it is my duty to ward off those who do not fall in line (now this is a warning).
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> Hope that the above is given a serious thought.
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> Dr U Singh
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This Dr Singh didn't publish along with other post
and my first academic exercise.
Which were only with good intensions and experiences
I wanted to share.
But then
From today I have decided to
Walk my Walk.
As a human I find it special and joyous.
As I feel grown up
Jus enough
to take on the World.
Wooooo....Hoooooooooo !!!!
SOURAV ISWARARI
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